Wednesday, November 25, 2015

For the Love of Grammar


I love English Grammar. I love reading about it, learning about it, and teaching it. Two books in particular have piqued this interest. In Denise Eide's book, Uncovering the Logic of English, she explains and gives examples of the numerous grammar and phonetic rules, how to use them, and how to teach them. Once I realized how language and its usage all fit together, I discovered that the exceptions to these rules are actually rare. I also use her curriculum in our homeschool as one of several resources I pull from. The other book that has intrigued me enough to read it several times is King Alfred's English by Laurie J. White. This book is a fascinating, entertaining, and an informative telling of history, the development of the English language, and linguistics. In fact, I'm planning to read it again over the holidays.



Since enthusiasm is contagious, English Grammar is a favorite subject in our home. My own homeschool children, M and G, have caught the bug and I work hard to keep that bug alive. We like to play games. Since I'm the Essentials tutor in our local Classical Conversations homeschooling community, I've not only learned a vast amount of English Grammar, I've also created numerous games to use in class. Review time can become a drag unless the teacher/parent makes an effort to spice it up a bit. Games make learning fun and do an excellent job of reinforcing concepts. Over the holiday season, I'm slowing our homeschool down and not introducing any new material; just taking time to solidify what we've been studying for the past 12 weeks.






One of the games we play in class at the end of each twelve weeks is Wipe-Out. I write the grammar terms introduced so far on a white board. The students split into two teams, and taking turns, either give definitions or examples of each one. The words are erased from the board when answered correctly. At home, I'm planning to blindfold my child,(M), turn her around a couple of times, and let her stick a post-it note onto the board. Then she can tell me what she knows about the term she lands on and wipe it off. A Hershey's kiss goes a long way as a reward. Awww... keeping it simple!



























Jenga is popular at our house. I taped different English Grammar questions on the blocks and then we play as usual, stopping to answer the questions. I'm always astounded by how much she knows. (I'm also amazed by how much I know thanks to the last four years of Essentials class and I'm blown away by how much her sister knows after graduating from three years of Essentials.)


Of course, Bingo is an easy game to put together. I printed a blank bingo card and wrote the answers to questions related to our IEW writing curriculum, Teaching Writing, Structure, and Style. I like to call it VINCO (I conquer) just to throw in some Latin. 





Another fun game is Preposition Bingo. As I call out the different prepositions, I also give some other parts of speech for M to identify. I try to be tricky and use words like some, somehow, forward, farther; words that we haven't used in example sentences yet. She may not initially know what parts of speech these are, but she should know that they're not prepositions because she has those memorized. (Thanks to CC Foundation's English Grammar memory work.)




We review the parts of speech while also working on writing skills by narrating, or telling back, a short section of something she's reading. It can be anything. Eventually, I will have M write out her narration, but for now I type it up as she is retelling the story. I have her identify different parts of speech. Using different colors to highlight makes it fun. I sometimes present it as a scavenger hunt - find ten nouns, circle five subjects, underline six verbs, highlight four adverbs, etc. Then she adds quality adjectives and -ly adverbs. 





One of the ways we study sentence patterns is by choosing one of our favorite photos and writing sentences incorporating the first four patterns that we are learning. I print them out and then she parses, diagrams, and writes down the pattern. This is fun and I'll find some holiday related pictures to use these next couple of months.








We also play with sentence patterns by writing sentences in different patterns about whatever  book she is reading. This is a higher thinking skill because she not only has to recognize the pattern, she has to take what she has learned and put it into practice. As you can see, she doesn't always get them correct. But she's learning! We'll do this again using different sentence patterns.







I'm a staunch believer that in order to develop excellent writing skills, excellent literature needs to be read.   By becoming familiar with different great authors and various genres,  vocabulary increases, and different writing styles and techniques are recognized. I'm all about using what we read as the jumping off point for writing assignments. 





I also take every opportunity to mix in picture study. Pick-a-Stick lets M create unique sentences about a particular work of art. I've found numerous sites where famous artworks are available to download for free. The sticks have prompts written on them to guide the sentence creations. I love this game; it may be my favorite.









I like to teach punctuation as we read. I think it makes much more sense when seen in the context of a book. Project Gutenberg has all the old classics available to download making it possible to print sections of books. I look up some literature that we are reading and print out a favorite selection. We read it, look and circle all the punctuation; discussing punctuation rules as we go. I then print it again, removing all the punctuation. We work together to replace all of it. I let her do the ones she knows on her own; always adding a new one following IEW's Andrew Pudewa's EZ+1 motto. 





Writing an original story by using three pictures is a wonderful way to spark creativity while practicing not only handwriting, but also writing a keyword outline, constructing sentences of different structures and patterns, using the correct parts of speech, and adding stylistic techniques. That's more than enough concepts for M to manipulate. Talking about them together while creating a fun story makes this assignment very doable. I like to pick pictures from favorite books that we own. We've used illustrations from Good Dog Carl . Next up is Roses for Harry.







We couldn't function without a whiteboard. I often write the word usage labels across the top and she adds in the appropriate parts of speech. She then changes one word to its antonym, one to a synonym, and makes one complete word change. This is an activity presented in Shurley Grammar, another extremely helpful resource. I use the level 7 book and adapt it to our needs. M has fun diagramming but then again, don't we all?





I love how the Classical model invites me to be creative and taylor the curriculum to meet my individual child's needs. I enjoy thinking of ways to make learning English grammar and writing a natural part of each day. Lately, I've been keeping track of what we do over on Pinterest. There, I've posted a document of fun and inspiring Christmas sentences created by a fellow Essentials tutor to parse and diagram as we countdown to Christmas. Feel free to check it out and... enjoy the holidays.





Blessings to all of you during this holy season,
Melanie










Saturday, November 7, 2015

Let's Talk Math

When my husband and I initially began to contemplate homeschooling our girls, I was introduced to the classical method of education. I'm a reader and for the last six years I've gone through quite a few books on this subject. Recently, I've landed on a book by Diane Lockman. Her book, Trivium Mastery - The Intersection of Three Roads, discusses classical concepts in a down-to-earth manner that resonates with me. Her writing is helping me organize our curriculum and set tangible goals while also giving me tons of new ideas that will lead the girls to mastery of the trivium skills: grammar, dialectic, and rhetoric or (more easily understood) reading, thinking, and speaking.


Today, in preparation for our 12-week evaluation, I want to talk Math.


We do math... every day.  We love Saxon Math. I was pointed to Saxon on homeschooling day one and I couldn't be more pleased. This curriculum teaches new concepts while methodically reinforcing what has been previously learned. 


It's presented in the mindset of Andrew Pudewa's EZ+1 rule.(IEW) Continue with the old stuff until it's relatively easy and then introduce something new. The child doesn't even realize that she's learning something brand new. It's incredible. 


Math teaches critical thinking skills. I don't want our children to only memorize information, I want them to know what to do with that information. 




Simply possessing information won't make your homeschool child intelligent. He needs to learn how to analyze, organize, evaluate, and apply information so that he can make intelligent decisions about daily life. Trivium Mastery by Diane Lockman. 



In other words we 
1. gather
2. evaluate
3. conclude
with the goal of developing critical thinking skills.



We complete several Saxon 5/4 lessons a week. Each lesson involves a math fact page, a review section, a new concept, and problems that span all the concepts learned to date. I usually read through the lesson with her, but sometimes I just let her figure it out herself. By allowing her to gather, evaluate, and conclude on her own, she is developing independence and self-confidence. She reads the lesson, figures out the steps necessary to solve the problems, and then verbally explains the process to me. In this manner, she is concurrently working toward mastery of all three stages of the trivium: grammar, dialectic, and rhetoric.


Mathematics reveals its secrets only to those who approach it with pure love, for its own beauty. ~ Archimedes








I must admit (blush) that my critical thinking skills are lacking. But the wonderful fact is that my learning days are not over yet! We love Mindbenders by Critical Thinking Press. We spend time with these puzzles every week. Honestly, I have to chew on a couple of them before I get my brain thinking logically. As we work through them, I actually feel my thought process changing.





Now for the fun part. We play math games. Because I am the Essentials tutor of our local Classical Conversations homeschooling community, I've discovered the beauty, effectiveness, and just plain joy of learning through games. Testing the games I use in class has led me to incorporate a few of them into our weekly routine.



Shut the Box
Spunky Spiral

N2K or Board Slam


Board-slam-battleship - so much fun!


Multiplication Headbandz
Math Mania - Math facts in one minute.


I appreciate the fact that homeschooling allows our children to grow and learn in whatever manner works best for their individual personalities. And a side benefit is that I get to experience all of it right along with them. All I can say is - thank you.



Melanie


Wednesday, November 4, 2015

...I have only slipped away to the next room...


Ten years and one week ago I celebrated my 50th birthday. Life was good. One week later, I was mourning the death of my first born. And life was changed.

 
     
I've been told numerous times that "life can change in a second."  Life is always changing. That's a given. But a child's death is something of a different nature - something unnatural - something out of order.
   

Today, ten years later and ten years older, I remember her 



~ as an adorable first baby born to two inexperienced and undeserving people. 

~ with tons of crazy hair and startling blue eyes.

~ "perfect" nursery room until after that first night at home!

precious smiles.

~ anxiously running to her room after preschool, grabbing her blankie, and sticking her thumb in her mouth.

~ loving spirit and remarkable positive attitude.

~ beams of joy when her superior work ethic was recognized at her 6th grade awards banquet.

~ sweet face as I slowly woke her in the early morning to catch the school bus.

~ as she lost her temper when her little brothers tried to secretly video her in her room. (That was funny!)

~ unfailing love for those ornery brothers no matter what they did. And I remember how much they loved her.

~ giggles of joy and unblemished happiness.

~ last tender good night kiss.



The experts say that it takes seven years to refocus after the death of a child; that it takes seven years to stop crying everyday. 



 All I can say is, "Oh, how I miss you, my sweet girl".



Death is nothing at all.
I have only slipped away to the next room.
I am I and you are you.
Whatever we were to each other,
That, we still are.

Call me by my old familiar name.
Speak to me in the easy way
which you always used.
Put no difference in your tone.
Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow.

Laugh as we always laughed
at the little jokes we enjoyed together.
Play, smile, think of me. Pray for me.
Let my name be ever the household word
that it always was.
Let it be spoken without effect.
Without the trace of a shadow on it.

Life means all that it ever meant.
It is the same that it ever was.
there is absolute unbroken continuity.
Why should I be out of mind
because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you.
For an interval.
Somewhere. Very near.
Just around the corner.

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost. One brief moment and all will be as it was before only better, infinitely happier and forever we will all be one together with Christ.

Henry Scott Holland


Melanie







  








   

Sunday, October 11, 2015

Just some thoughts...




     I love Classical Conversations' Essentials program. This is my fourth year actively being a part of it. I am learning English Grammar and composition like I have never learned it before. My older daughter benefited greatly from her three year journey in Essentials. But... we all have different needs, abilities, and maturity levels.




     My younger daughter is nine; old enough to be in my Essentials class. (I'm the tutor.) But she is not ready for this curriculum as it is written so I have tweaked it to fit her needs. She is extremely intelligent yet quieter and more thoughtful than daughter #1. Because of this, her grammar and writing instruction has taken a slightly different slant.








     





We read... and read... and then read some more. We identify the parts of speech in what we're reading. We talk about figures of speech, adjectives, adverbs, and personification. We look at punctuation. We discuss whether a verb is intransitive or transitive. And she narrates.





     The narrating is the best part. She retells something she has read from a thoughtfully chosen piece of literature and I type it up just as she says it. As one would expect, this narration consists of one long sentence with endless coordinating conjunctions. After I print it out, she circles all the coordinating conjunctions and decides which ones to remove in order to make shorter, more concise sentences.




      She identifies the verbs, chooses adverbs from the adverb list in the Student Resource Notebook from Institute for Excellence in Writing (IEW), and writes them in.







      I retype it and voila, she has her own composition to be proud of. In fact, she's quite surprised that she's actually able to compose a three paragraph essay. But she is able and she has done it. Granted, she didn't write it all out on her own, but she did think it, say it, and it is all her own doing. In our present narration, she is not only adding adverbs, but will include adjectives.






     Since I embrace Charlotte Mason's philosophy of short lessons, we do this a little bit at a time. The whole process takes about three weeks. For a young student, learning to write this way makes sense to me.






     One reason we homeschool is to meet our children's educational needs by adapting various curricula.  The Essentials program has all the information necessary for the student to obtain a solid grip on English Grammar and writing, but its methods can certainly be modified to accommodate each child's individual personality.



She used strong verbs, quality adjectives,
and an adverb (-ly word) to compose
an original cinquain poem.



     So... here are my thoughts. ~ As homeschooling parents, we are the teachers. Don't be afraid to change it up in order to provide the best education possible for your unique child. Be your curriculum's master, not its slave.




     How do you change it up? I'd love to hear your thoughts.



Melanie


     
   

   

Friday, October 2, 2015

Music Lessons ~ The Harmony of Life



A private practice spot.

True cultivators know that a seed needs plenty of fertilizer, water, and sunshine. If you hold a seed in your hand and yell,"Sprout! Sprout! Sprout!" you are being merciless to the seed. The seed will not sprout unless the conditions are right... Everyone has a sprout of talent. Developing that sprout into a wonderful ability depends on how its cultivated.
Ability Development from Age Zero - Dr. Shinichi Suzuki
One on one with the Maestro: Russell Falstad









 









    I was raised in what I would consider to be a musical family. Both of my parents sang well and played the piano. We listened to various genres of music. We loved musicals. Countless evenings were enjoyed as we sang, gathered around the piano. (Of course, that was back in the day when people did that sort of thing together.) Attending concerts and plays was always a treat. I took piano lessons and played the clarinet in the Junior High band and my sister became a accomplished pianist and violinist. Yet, I never realized the huge gift my parents gave me, until now.
   

     Our girls are learning to play the piano and violin. We are blessed to have two wonderful teachers, who not only are fabulous musicians but understand how children learn. Being experts in communicating their knowledge of technique and music fundamentals, they are helping our daughters build masterful skills. The instruction they receive and their daily practice (well, almost daily) affects every aspect of their education.
Our fantastic new piano teacher.


Their music instruction:
~ teaches them to embrace delayed gratification. Quite a bit of time and effort is required before the notes on the page begin to flow together into lovely harmony. It takes stick-to-itness, a quality that seems to be scarce nowadays. Naturally, this spills over to other subjects. We've all learned that it takes determination and patience to develop different skills and guess what? ~ we have the rest of our lives in which to do this.


Deep practice is built on a paradox: struggling in certain targeted ways - operating at the edges of you ability, where you make mistakes - makes you smarter. Or to put it a slightly different way, experiences where you're forced to slow down, make errors, correct them - as you would if you were walking up and ice-covered hill, slipping and stumbling as you go - end up making you swift and graceful without your realizing it.
The Talent Code - Daniel Coyle


~ helps to increase their memory capacity. This is particularly true with M's violin lessons. She learns the music by listening, playing, listening, correcting, listening and playing again.  Although she reads music (thanks to her piano lessons), she knows all of her violin songs by memory. It's incredible.


~ teaches time management. Since I stress
Mrs. Nancy Wood - We love her.
practicing first thing in the morning when they're fresh (and I am too), they get up early in order to get it done along with their school work. We all like to have the afternoon free to pursue art, nature, free reading, or just to play.



If a child feels that she has an open-ended potential, that anything is possible, that the deciding factor is her desire, application, and persistence, then life is a great adventure, not a threatening unknown.
To Learn With Love,  A Companion for Suzuki Parents - William and Constance Starr



~ develops hand-eye coordination. They both seem to have pretty nimble fingers and a nice touch on the piano, while playing the violin demands the body and brain to work together on many different levels.


~ opens their world to different musicians, history, and culture. It's pretty much impossible to play a musical piece without having some curiosity about the composer and his life.


~ requires concentration. In order to improve, they must concentrate on pitch, rhythm, tempo, and sound quality. M participates in a violin group jam session where she learns not only to listen to herself, but to listen to and follow along with others.


If, as a person works at playing the violin well, he develops the talent to overcome any difficult problem by working, then the talent will be born to accomplish even the hardest problems easily. As a person practices the violin, he creates this talent.
Ability Development From Age Zero - Dr. Shinichi Suzuki

The concentration is showing.


     I appreciate all of these areas touched by music lessons, yet I'm looking forward to and hoping that learning to play a musical instrument will also:


~ foster self-expression and relieve stress. I have a personal goal of relearning piano technique precisely to obtain these benefits.


~ promote social skills. As an introvert, M is benefitting from her one on one contact with these intelligent, talented, and caring adults and her contact with her peers during the jam sessions. She is able to communicate in a safe environment with others sharing a common interest.
Heartstrings Academy


~ create a sense of achievement. What a wonderful feeling it is to work hard at something and produce beauty.


~ just be plain old fun!



     My husband and I, like all parents, want to encourage self-efficacy and independence in our children. We want to give them tools necessary to thrive as adults. Long term music instruction is one of the best ways that children can develop thinking, social, and basic life skills. I'm confident that our commitment to music lessons is laying a strong foundation for our children to travel through life on.

Tinkling the ivories.

Music exists for the purpose of growing an admirable heart. 
Ability Development from Age Zero - Dr. Shinichi Suzuki

...and really, isn't that our ultimate desire?

Melanie